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S DA FOUNTAIN Odyssey archive · est. 2000
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0736 12 Oct 2013 29 min Part 3 of 3

Life Expectancy

Connie has inherited her mother June's house, and every room is full of memories - the ugly grandfather clock that timed her curfew, the sofa where June nursed her through sick days. Sorting through it all, she wrestles with a harder question: why does God let people suffer and die? Eugene, Wooton, and Whit each offer a piece of the answer, from June's own words about carrying your cross with Jesus to Wooton's warning that explaining suffering to someone in pain is like explaining water to someone who's drowning... sometimes love just shows up with miniature golf. Meanwhile, Jason's fear of losing Whit boils over, and father and son finally talk honestly about the deaths of Jerry and Jason's mother. Connie learns she may never argue her sister Jules into faith, but she can love her like a sister. So she picks up a pen and begins a letter - not with answers, but with an open door.
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Jeff Lewis tells Connie that he has become a Christian partly because of her influence and now pilots aircraft for a missionary organization in troubled parts of the world. He hopes they can meet later to catch up, but for now he joins everyone helping at June’s house. His unexpected return adds one more change to days already overflowing with them.

Connie inherits June’s house and belongings but would rather have her mother than any possession. As she considers an estate sale with Jason, memories attach themselves to nearly everything. The ugly grandfather clock once measured her curfew, and the sofa held her whenever she was sick while June sat nearby and stroked her head. Jason wisely tells her that she does not need to decide immediately what to keep or sell. Connie begins considering living in the house herself.

Her conversation with Jules has left Connie searching for a Christian understanding of suffering and death. Eugene helps her distinguish suffering caused by personal choices, suffering for one’s faith, and pain that arrives through illness or circumstances without any clear human cause. Jason cannot offer an easy answer either. Connie’s questions about sudden death make him newly afraid of losing Whit.

When Whit strains himself lifting a heavy box of napkins, Jason urges him to get a medical checkup and avoid every unnecessary risk. Whit explains that Jason cannot make life completely safe or prevent sickness and death; either they trust that they are in God’s hands or they do not. Jason acknowledges his fear and asks to talk about the earlier deaths of his brother Jerry and his mother. Father and son choose honest remembrance over anxious attempts at control.

Wooton visits Connie as she sorts June’s possessions. He suggests that discomfort can help people appreciate comfort, but he also knows that such an explanation offers little to a person in fresh pain. Trying to explain suffering to someone who is suffering is like explaining water to someone who is drowning. The better response is to help, love, and remain present. He offers miniature golf rather than a lecture.

Eugene reveals that he and Katrina sometimes sought June’s advice. When they learned that they could not have children, June told them that Jesus’ suffering gives human suffering meaning and can draw people closer to Him, remind them that this world is not their final home, and shape them for greater things. Jesus did not promise to remove every cross; He called His followers to carry theirs with Him. Hearing her mother’s wisdom returned through Eugene deepens both Connie’s grief and her appreciation for June.

Whit tells Connie that suffering appears meaningless apart from God, just as Jules believes. Trust and love do not remove pain, but they make it possible to receive God’s comfort and believe that He can work through what cannot yet be understood. Such convictions are best learned before suffering comes, because verses can sound hollow in the middle of loss. Connie may never argue Jules into seeing this; she can show it by being available as a loving sister.

Connie begins a letter to Jules. Normal life cannot simply return, because her old normal included June, but a new relationship may begin. She asks how Jules is doing and starts sharing the thoughts that have grown from their conversation about suffering. Rather than offering a perfect explanation, Connie opens the door to an ongoing life as her sister.